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6th September 2024

What to write in a sympathy card

Deciding what to write in a sympathy card can be a challenging and emotional experience. Finding the right words that will effectively comfort somebody who is mourning is no easy task. As human beings, we have a tendency to overthink every single word, and often wonder if the words we say (or write) will have any impact at all. There is no set rule book to follow when sending sympathy cards, and it’s important to remember that the most meaningful words of sympathy always come directly from the heart.

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6th September 2024

What is an unattended funeral?

Is it possible to have a funeral without a service? Yes – unattended funerals are held without a formal service or mourners. These types of funerals have become increasingly popular in the wake of COVID-19. They offer a convenient, affordable alternative to traditional funerals and allow for a more dignified, fuss-free final farewell. But what exactly is an unattended funeral, and why might it be the right choice for you or your loved one? This guide explores all aspects of unattended funerals, from their benefits to practical considerations.

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6th September 2024

Should children go to funerals?

Arranging a funeral for your loved one involves many difficult decisions, including whether or not children should attend funerals. Many parents worry that younger children may become upset or confused, or cause disruptions to the ceremony. Whether or not a funeral is suitable for your child depends on their personality, and you should aim to reach a decision with their best interests at the forefront. If you’re on the fence about whether to bring your child to an upcoming funeral, we offer some valuable insights on aspects to consider below.

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6th September 2024

Do I have to wear black to a funeral?

Choosing what to wear to a funeral is a difficult decision. When selecting your funeral attire, you should consider the formality of the event and the family’s individual preferences. Many people wonder if they have to wear black to a funeral. This Western tradition goes back centuries and is the most commonly worn funeral attire in the UK. Nowadays, many memorial services are transforming into more of a celebration of life, welcoming brighter colours and personalised dress themes.

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6th September 2024

What to say when someone dies (plus 5 phrases to avoid)

When someone dies, it’s never easy to think of the right words to say. Finding suitable words of sympathy can be a challenge, whether the deceased is a family member, close friend, or a distant acquaintance. You may be worried about sounding cliché or upsetting the person who is grieving. We offer some thoughts and ideas to help you decide what to say when someone dies, as well as sharing some common phrases that should be avoided.

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4th September 2024

How long after death is a funeral?

Losing a loved one is always difficult, especially if you’ve been tasked with organising their funeral. You may have many questions about the process for funeral arrangements, including how soon after death to arrange the funeral, and whether a funeral can be delayed in extenuating circumstances. In today’s blog, we outline the common guidelines about when funerals should be held, so you can make a well-informed choice that works for you and your family.

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  • "My mom passed away a little over a month ago which was the hardest thing I have ever gone through.

    My saving grace in the weeks that followed was Alexander Burn Funeral Directors. They handled everything and walked us through the whole process from the moment my mom passed away to the end of the funeral with sensitivity and care. Will and Goe in the Cheltenham office were so sweet and professional and made every quirky request my family and I had a reality. They were creative and went above and beyond for us and the funeral was perfect. Alexander Burn, himself, was also at the funeral and was a very warm presence. I am so impressed by how Alexander Burn Funeral Directors handled everything during such a difficult time and would recommend them highly.”

  • "I just wanted to say on behalf of the family a very big thank you for all the support and kindness extended to us regarding arrangements for our dear Mum's funeral.

    We especially would like to give thanks to Kim who was always at the end of the phone to answer all our questions and guide us through the whole process. She did so with patience and understanding and compassion. It has made the whole thing bearable. For recommending a printer and florist who were just perfect too. To Will who lead us through everything on the day and was so kind to us and calm which made it all seem better.

    To Ewan for speaking on our behalf at Mum’s service. He did so with such empathy and kindness and professionalism. His own personal twist on everything made the event much more uplifting and although we were sad he got it that we wanted to celebrate Mum’s life and try not to be sad she has gone. Everybody who attended said it was a beautiful service and Mum would have been proud of what we had all done.

    It has been a very sad time but thanks again for making it bearable and the best it could be for our lovely Mum and all who attended that day.
    Even the sun came out …. now how did you do that???!!! Amazing!”

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